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Hey, I was wondering if you guys could help me. I think I might be bi-curious, but I'm not sure. :/

I've always thought of myself as straight. I've always had crushes on boys, and whenever I fell for them I feel hard. They'd always be the ones I'd check out in a room and in places. It's always been that way. And when it came to girls, I saw them as friends, and just people of the same gender, since I considered myself to be straight. But at the same time, about every two years I feel something different for a girl. First I think she's pretty, and I like her personality traits. But then it turns into a little something more. Like, I become attracted to her, and I get jealous of guys when they're around her. And once around a girl I found myself wanting to impress her and when I saw her my breath was knocked away because she was so pretty.

But here's the thing. I know I like guys. And truthfully most of the time when I think about getting with a girl I think it's gross. But every once in a while, those feelings come up. I never let it get as far as a crush, because I thought of myself as straight, and they were straight girls too. I don't think I'm bi-sexual, but do you think I might be bi-curious? I never want to get into a serious relationship with a girl. And I've also never, EVER told anybody about these feelings before, so this is really hard admitting. And I think since you guys are bi-sexual, that you can help me out. :) I really need it. Thank you so much!
 vanillamoon08 posted over a year ago
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SouthParkSmart said:
Yeah, bi-curious might be a good identity for you at this point, if you don't want to label yourself as bisexual. You don't have to be completely balanced, like 50% straight and 50% gay; if you feel more attracted to guys than girls, that's fine.

It took me years to figure out that I was bi, and it's all about self-exploration and not listening what mainstream society says about you. It's what you feel, so don't be ashamed of admitting this! :-)
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Thank you! :) And, yes I agree with you that you can be more attracted to one gender than the other, but still be bi-sexual. I think I might like guys 90% and girls 10% at this point, since I know I'm not all the way straight. :/ This is all still confusing and new to me, so thank you again! :) And I'll try not to be ashamed. I still didn't tell my friends yet. I might tell one though, just to vent out my feeling more.
vanillamoon08 posted over a year ago
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Agreed. What this person said. lol
gamer495 posted over a year ago
-emofreak- said:
dont worry thats exactly how i feel... every once ina while... girls come into the picture... but im usually straight wit guys. when i was in first grade i had the same experience wanting to impress the prettiest girl in my class and i think that was a bisexual moment... but i am not sure either...ive never told anyone either and i hope to some time soon...:/ i wish i could help but im just stuck admitting i have the same problem...
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aw yeah it's okay. :(((( You're not alone. It's all very confusing, right? I'm not sure what to think. Plus, my mom tells me that bisexuality isn't real, and she calls them "lost souls" (which is so wrong. But she thinks you can either go one way or another. Nothing in the middle). So I definitely don't know what to think. And, yes, I always try to find myself trying to impress the pretty girl. :/
vanillamoon08 posted over a year ago
littleslave said:
i think you're straight up bi-sexual.bi-curiousity is when you want to try people of your gender,to see if you attract.if you know you are attracted to her,you are bi-sexual.
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Oh okay, I see. Thank you! :) Yeah, but I'm just slightly confused since I don't see every girl in that way, you know? Unlike with me and guys, who I check out all the time. XDD
vanillamoon08 posted over a year ago
Cries_Bloodlova said:
i c Where u r n i say just a tat
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a tat? What do you mean like just a thing like fades?
vanillamoon08 posted over a year ago
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No im Sayin Not To much U know U have ur Limits n sry 4 my bad spelling....:l
Cries_Bloodlova posted over a year ago
Haku2009 said:
Just because you don't like girls and guys equally doesn't mean you're not bi. Every Bi I know has a group they prefer. If you're not sure try going out on a date. It doesn't have to be a relationship just a single date and judge your feelings.

If you don't want to go on a date I had a friend who kissed another girl to figure out what she was. Maybe you'll like it, maybe it will keep your straight.

For now don't label yourself. Give yourself time to figure out your feelings. Don't let anyone preasure you into a decision.
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Okay, thank you! :) Yeah, I hav a boyfriend now, but I'm not sure still about myself. And I still haven't told anyone about these weird feelings that I get sometimes. :/ Maybe in college, if I'm not with my boyfriend anymore, I could try dating some girls just to see if I like it at all.
vanillamoon08 posted over a year ago
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