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Sexuality Confusion. Am i bisexual?!?

I just wanted to see what other people think cuz im pretty confused. My sister and brother always tease my about being lesbian (my whole family is really accepting and wouldnt care at all, they just like messing with me). My sister actualy does think i am. She dosent tell me directly but i can tell that jokingly saying it is her way of telling me what she thinks. I guess i should ask her why she thinks that.She used to hate people for being homophobic but recently she got a new boyfriend whos the kind of christian that dosent accept it and shes becoming that way also.

The reason why i think it might not just be a phase is because in my k-2nd grade years i used to have a close friend and randomly kiss her own the lips. Other friends would say eww. She never said anything but would look uncomfortable. I always just thought it was like a hug. When in the fourth and fifth grade my friends (girls) would always say i would geet too close for a long time too much. I would always put my arm around them and push them with my hips. Stuff like that. Is it just because i ve always felt lonely or am i just a physical person? Well it cant be that cuz i dont like anything alse physical like sports and such. i dont know.

Now im noticing girls more and more. Their faces, breasts. And if i like girls i know i have to be bi cuz i like guys too. I dont know when ill be able to figure this out either because everyone my age around has pretty boring personalities and right know its getting to be cool to say your bi if your a girl at my school even if you arent. Sorry bit i need to get these thoughts out.


 MaeLynn posted over a year ago
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SouthParkSmart said:
Don't let your sister or anyone make assumptions about your sexuality. There is no way anyone else can truly know who you are.

From the information you've given so far, it seems like you have lesbian interests, not necessarily bisexual. Or it could just be you have left guys out of your explanation, which is fine. :-) It's just that some people like to identify as bisexual as they ease into the gay/lesbian world. So that might be something to consider.

I personally believe that what you do as a young child doesn't prove your sexuality either way. Kids aren't developed enough to know who they are attracted to. So just forget the stuff you did as a child for now and answer this: are you (currently) sexually attracted to both sexes? Or just girls? Or just guys? "Attraction" is pretty hard to define, so don't be afraid to examine your feelings.

And if you discover you are bi/lesbian, don't let anyone put you down for it!
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hey,thanks. i guess i just need to be paitent.
MaeLynn posted over a year ago
RiderOfTempest said:
I feel the same way. I know i like boys....but...i really dont Know how it feels to like To like another girl...sorry idk. :(
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So Wait, That Means Your Bicurious.? Just Asking...
RocsBooThanggg posted over a year ago
I-n-dieformusic said:
sounds like me when I was younger and I still like being close to people just randomly.. So I think this wouldn't prove you are attracted to girls. But from my own experiences I can say you'll know if you're bisexual. Your body is gonna tell you and then you can say for sure what your sexuality is. Just wait a bit and don't worry too much about it. And being someone who likes body contact doesn't mean to be attracted to them! Good luck with finding out :)
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RocsBooThanggg said:
Well, Just Because Your Sister Thinks You Are A Lesbian DOesn't Mean You Are. And iHad A Best Friend Were iCalled Her My Sister And iWould Always Touch Her Hair For Random Reasons. And You Say That You Are Noticing Girls More And More Doesn't Mean You Are Bisexual. It Just Means You Think They're Pretty And That You See Them. I'm Bisexual And iNoticed More Girls Than Usual. But, iLike Guys More. If You Have Any More Questions, You Can Ask Me On My Messages. iHope This Helps... :\
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Or You Simply Could Be Bicurious....
RocsBooThanggg posted over a year ago
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