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Disney Princess Do you think Anna's desperation for love is problematic?

45 fans picked:
I don't see anything wrong with yearning for love
   38%
Yes, but still very common and treatable
   31%
Kinda
   20%
Yes, you have to feel complete without a man
   9%
Yes because falling in love just because you want...
Yes because falling in love just because you want to be in love is not a good ide
   2%
(added by wanderingchild7)
 dimitri_ posted over a year ago
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dancing_dear picked Yes, but still very common and treatable:
A lot of women think they are incomplete without a boyfriend. You got to learn to love yourself before you can love someone else.
posted over a year ago.
 
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anaswill picked Kinda:
Well, she almost married Hans; that would have been problematic.
posted over a year ago.
 
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UnholyNoise picked Yes, but still very common and treatable:
There's nothing wrong with wanting to be loved, even craving it the way she does, the problem is that it drives her to do very reckless things.
posted over a year ago.
 
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scarletunicorn picked I don't see anything wrong with yearning for love:
"Problematic" is such an overused word nowadays...

And no, there's nothing wrong with yearning for love, especially in her situation where she has nobody at her side (no friends, no family). It's pretty normal and realistic. I agree with UnholyNoise that the only problem with this is that it leads her to do dangerous thoughtless things, but that's it.

Many people yearn for love in their lives, other people are fine being single. Both are okay.
What's not okay is being one of those bitter jealous folks that attack others just because they're in relationships/singles while they aren't. (Like that dumb Buzfeed post that said Snow White's song should be rewritten for "the strong woman who needs no man". how about you write your own "yay single" song instead?)

You just come out as very insecure when you attack others for their love lives/end up being so invested in whom another person dates.
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haynay24 picked I don't see anything wrong with yearning for love:
^Totally, i dont see any problem on this.
posted over a year ago.
 
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tiffany88 picked Yes, you have to feel complete without a man:
Yeah, pretty much.
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sarchasm picked Yes, but still very common and treatable:
It's understandable, but it's healthier for people to be comfortable independently.
posted over a year ago.
 
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Angelica_AW picked Kinda:
It's a little problematic, but I can kinda understand why she would want some form of love.
posted over a year ago.
 
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wavesurf picked Yes, but still very common and treatable:
I'm honestly in-between. I feel like you need an identity that is separate from all other people. But you still need interaction with other people in order to strengthen the nurturing of your own psyche. That's why solitary confinement is SO DAMAGING. And I feel like out of all of the DPs, both Rapunzel and Anna suffered basically from solitary confinement, and responded weirdly afterwards, because it leaves lasting effects.
posted over a year ago.
 
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AudreyFreak picked I don't see anything wrong with yearning for love:
what scarlet said.

and it's also very healthy to have good social skills, the ability to develop good relationships, and get along with others. in fact probably more important. and that's coming from someone who was happy being single till I got a guy too.

I'm just really sick of how defensive and rude people get towards others' happiness and love lives. especially in a sad situation like Anna's or Snow White's where one is abused and the other is neglected. everyone deserves love. it comes off as envy to me.
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Yes because falling in love...
wanderingchild7 picked Yes because falling in love just because you want to be in love is not a good ide:
*idea* I missed the "a". :P
posted over a year ago.