Can please Have some advice??

here's some cheats to make ur Sim life happier:
50,000 simoleons: shift+C+ motherlode
all houses free: shift+C+freerealestate

If u r playing The Sims3 then u should focus in one family and if you,d like to play another one you should not (start new game) but go to (edit Town) and then switch (change Current Household) and choose another family or create new one. The traits!! you are free to choose but in my opinion if u want successful family life : Family Oriented Friendly , Good Sense of Humor , Neat , Good... are the best traits especially for women Sims. Avoiding Mean,Hot Head , Grumpy which may crashes the relation Ships , and also Flirty traits which mights lead for jealousy... have fun

i would love to help you but its been so long since i played sims,i fogot what to do.im hoping soon that i can get the sims games back into my collection so i can play again.sorry.

idk if you use the money cheat but that makes the game not fun. Always pursue their life goals and their big lifetime wish. It will make the game more fun for you. I always build this big house and I make a family and start them out in a house they can afford. Keep working and do other ways to earn money so you can buy that big house you built!