Help me please

Okay this is killing me. A long while ago I read a list I think you'd best call it,

with a list or rules the daughter of Tony and Ziva had to follow in her life.

Now I found a new one, which had me thinking of the other one. one PROBLEM I cannot find the other story.

So if anyone has/knows stories of lists of rules for the daughter of Tony and Ziva please tell me